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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 10, 2006 10:44 AM
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> I disagree, there are living victims of Betty's > crime. Dan and Linda had families that loved them. > Dan and Linda are dead, they will never share another > holiday, birthday or special occasion with their > families again. > > Yes, it is unfortunate that Dan and Linda didn't stop > and think about the possible consequences their > repugnant treatment of Betty could have. Had they > treated her decently they would still be here - > spending holidays and birthdays with their families. > > Betty murdered two people because her feelings got > hurt. > > That certainly is an understatement. The constant > bullying not only hurt her feelings, it caused her to > lose all sense of right and wrong. > > Anyone can succeed in life and be happy, > especially in North America. It's a choice. > > Yeah, right! Anjie, maybe you should open your eyes to some of the repression outside of North America if you do not believe we all have the opportunity to succeed. Betty is blessed to live her life in the US. She is blessed to have children that love her. There are people in this world that suffer more than we will ever know!
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 10, 2006 10:24 AM
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I disagree, there are living victims of Betty's crime. Dan and Linda had families that loved them. Dan and Linda are dead, they will never share another holiday, birthday or special occasion with their families again. Yes, it is unfortunate that Dan and Linda didn't stop and think about the possible consequences their repugnant treatment of Betty could have. Had they treated her decently they would still be here - spending holidays and birthdays with their families. Betty murdered two people because her feelings got hurt. That certainly is an understatement. The constant bullying not only hurt her feelings, it caused her to lose all sense of right and wrong. Anyone can succeed in life and be happy, especially in North America. It's a choice. Yeah, right! 
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 10, 2006 12:11 AM
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> Betty was not a victim. The victim's are dead I disagree, there are living victims of Betty's crime. Dan and Linda had families that loved them. Dan and Linda are dead, they will never share another holiday, birthday or special occasion with their families again. Betty murdered two people because her feelings got hurt. I think about the feelings of everyone who loved Dan and Linda. Betty could have done many things differently but chose to battle with her x-husband and his wife. She is a victim of her own actions, not those of Dan and Linda. If she was crazy, she drove herself crazy. We can't blame other people for how we feel about ourselves. Why has it become so easy for individuals to blame society for their faults? I think it is time for people to take responsibility for themselves and start making the most out of what they have. Anyone can succeed in life and be happy, especially in North America. It's a choice.
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 9, 2006 11:25 PM
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Betty was not a victim. The victim's are dead Betty was very much a victim - a victim of betrayal and mental cruelty - mental cruelty that eventually caused a devoted wife and mother to lose all ability to deal rationally with the Hell that her life became. Yes...Dan and Linda are victims - victims of the woman they drove over the edge. They indeed played a huge role in their own deaths. They were hateful bullies.
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 9, 2006 9:47 PM
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Betty was not a victim. The victim's are dead. Any misery she dwelled in she loved and thrived on and even drove most of her closest friends away. This is woman who even tried to use her own childern to hurt their father and linda and when they refused she cursed at them and refused to see them. Glad you all found yourselves a hero you can model after.
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azcyndi
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 8:07 PM
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"Even "insane" people are capable of planning a murder (not very well, but...). I don't think there was a lot of rational planning involved. It seems that the most recent legal ruling she got from Dan's lawyer convinced her that she had no choice but to kill Dan and Linda, unfortunately. She obviously couldn't see a better solution." From Betty's behavior, it appears to me that she didn't really have much control over her actions. Who knows where her head was when she got the gun. She appears to have been wanting to use it on herself sometimes (self hate) and sometimes on Dan. I believe that more than actual planning, she was just swinging back and forth from one extreme to the next. I can see where her seeing them actually together in bed, as husband & wife, being actually faced with them in such an intimate setting was the final straw.
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Anjie
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 4:47 PM
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I feel that Betty Broderick was driven to a point to which she had no control. She worked hard to put her husband through both medical and law school, went through pregnancies and raising children, and dealt with the hardship of being mother & father as Dan put in the long hours required of a new lawyer with a budding and successful career. It is pretty obvious that during this time, it was Betty that gave all to her husband & family with the expectation of better days ahead. I can believe that Dan reassured her over & over that soon it would be worth it and that they would reap the rewards some day. I agree, azcyndi. Dan was a selfish man who cared only for himself. It was Betty who gave and gave and gave. Then, when the money started pouring in, Dan had no more use for Betty. He kicked her to the curb for a much younger woman. It seems to me that she gave plenty of warning signs that she was near the breaking point, yet no one attempted to help her, especially her husband. In fact, he kept pouring fuel on the fire. Her behavior and her actions up to that day clearly shows that she was becoming less rational and more psychotic. She certainly did give warning signs - many. AND Dan and Linda did keep pouring fuel onto the fire, and enjoying every minute of Betty's "craziness". They thought she was hilarious. Don't get me wrong, I don't think she was justified in murdering him and his new younger, thinner, prettier wife. I don't feel that murder is justified, either. I don't even approve of the death penalty. However, I do believe that she sincerely did not plan and plot to murder them. I don't believe her mind was organized and focused enough to plan anything much less carry out any type of plan. Even "insane" people are capable of planning a murder (not very well, but...). I don't think there was a lot of rational planning involved. It seems that the most recent legal ruling she got from Dan's lawyer convinced her that she had no choice but to kill Dan and Linda, unfortunately. She obviously couldn't see a better solution. This was not only a crime of passion but also a crime that she was almost bullied into doing by the very people she killed. So true...sad, but true. 
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 3:03 PM
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I feel that Betty Broderick was driven to a point to which she had no control. She worked hard to put her husband through both medical and law school, went through pregnancies and raising children, and dealt with the hardship of being mother & father as Dan put in the long hours required of a new lawyer with a budding and successful career. It is pretty obvious that during this time, it was Betty that gave all to her husband & family with the expectation of better days ahead. I can believe that Dan reassured her over & over that soon it would be worth it and that they would reap the rewards some day. It seems to me that she gave plenty of warning signs that she was near the breaking point, yet no one attempted to help her, especially her husband. In fact, he kept pouring fuel on the fire. Her behavior and her actions up to that day clearly shows that she was becoming less rational and more psychotic. Don't get me wrong, I don't think she was justified in murdering him and his new younger, thinner, prettier wife. However, I do believe that she sincerely did not plan and plot to murder them. I don't believe her mind was organized and focused enough to plan anything much less carry out any type of plan. This was not only a crime of passion but also a crime that she was almost bullied into doing by the very people she killed.
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 1:13 PM
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I agree Anjie she was very controlling and crazy, she would act before she would think. So what she got him through school, isn't marriage give or take? When you are married you make sacrifices for one another,everyone keeps talking about she put him through school and he left her. I say move on
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 1:09 PM
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Passive, where did you see Dan being controlling, that was all her side of the story, the movie the book, the court case, Dan will never be able to tell his side because he is dead.
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 1:06 PM
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I agree with you , she choose to stay. She could have walked away. She did what she wanted to do and that was kill them, and now she wants people to feel sorry for her. He was long gone when she killed them so what was her point.
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mrsbigw
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 12:57 PM
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Betty chose to be a victim. She stayed locked in the battle for years. She could have walked away and chosen more productive ways of coping. Their are real victims that did not choose to be victims. Linda and Dan had loved ones that are now victims of Betty's crimes.
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Anjie
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 12:43 PM
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Dan was controlling true but so was Betty. Dan was much worse than controlling. He was abusive. He was a poor excuse for a husband and father. The responsibilities of the children were Betty's, and Betty's alone. She didn't complain until Dan started the affair with Linda...about the same time he started the hurtful insults to Betty. Betty got Dan through school but that does not allow her to verbally abuse Dan. She didn't verbally abuse Dan until he kept up with the insulting, disrespectful treatment of Betty. If you act like evil person people will want to leave you. And, if you act evil enough, the victim of your 'evil' treatment may strike back.
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Nov 8, 2006 11:05 AM
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Dan was controlling true but so was Betty.Betty got Dan through school but that does not allow her to verbally abuse Dan.If you act like evil person people will want to leave you.So Betty destroyed Dan then killed him due to jealousy real nice.She should be executed
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Re: Betty Broderick also a victim
Oct 22, 2006 9:53 PM
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