Thank You A&E!!!

I can only re-itterate what most of everyone else has said about this movie. It's such an amazing feat first off that we are finally able to see movies like this hit mainstream television, and theatres in some cases. A few years ago you would have never imagined that a gay themed show would be public like this, but I think it is wonderful as it can finally give people an idea that we as gay people are just normal everyday folk like our straight counter-parts. I do sincerely hope that with shows such as this are just the begining of a long line of movies, tv shows to hit mainstream television just like many of the straight tv shows that we all enjoy too. I can't remember who posted the comment about the gay construction worker, and I totally agree with that...but as one person said the hair stylists and party planners are pretty much how gay people have portrayed, but in reality we come in all varieties of careers from construction workers to politicians, firefighters and police officers to various sports athletes. I think though you will see more of that down the road though. I am a Canadian, and there is actually a movie coming out very soon about a hockey player who plays for the Toronto Maple Leafs who struggles with being gay and being a hockey player-it looks great but as I say I think you'll see more shows that let everyone know that gay people work in all sorts of industries. In any event, I loved this movie and hope that A&E may have more movies inline that deal with being gay.

I agree with this post in that everyone involved with the making of Wedding Wars did an amazing job. As a writer I'm always looking for ways to deal with social issues as delicately, tastefully, and even with a wonderful sense of humor as did the writers of this movie. And the actors portrayed the characters with love and respect as well.

Wedding Wars addressed a very serious social issue and made a powerful political statement without viewers hating any of the characters -- at least viewers who aren't afraid to think outside the box! Heck, we couldn't even hate James Brolin's character who wouldn't change his opinion and I loved his parting and honest remark when asked why he wouldn't change "Because I want to be re-elected." Now that's funny!

I could address religion here, but there will be plenty of others doing that so I will conclude by saying that Wedding Wars was entertaining, funny, touching, inspirational and it handled a very delicate topic with respect. My deepest respect to those who brought this wonderful movie to us!

Agree with all of you. An excellent job was done by all involved.

This was a splendid movie. I am very proud of A&E for showing this movie. At one time it was illegal for blacks to marry whites, for jews to marry christians. People from almost every possible background have had to face prejudice. It takes courage to stand up and fight for rights. In almost every war and state of oppression the bible has been used to alienate, humiliate, control, and justify barbaric behaviors. For once the people need to understand that never was the bible intended to teach judgement or hate, it was intended to teach compassion and love for one another. Ignorance breeds fear, and A&E has taken a moment to educate.

> First of all, I would like to thank A&E and the
> writers, actors, and team of "Wedding Wars" for
> finally asking the question "What would happen if
> Gays went on strike?". I am not sure that many people
> have thought about it. As a productive member of
> society as well as being gay, I feel that this is a
> question that should be addressed and seriously
> thought about.

I watched the movie and while it is not the same caliber of Angels in America it is much more easy to understand. I was very impressed with Mr. Stamos playing a gay man and think that it was handled very well without playing to stereotypical behavior so commonly seen in roles of this type. His being gay was not overplayed and while it was central to his character it was not the most important aspect of the character's life. His relationship with his partner was well handled and illustrated that it is not necessary for one person in a gay relationship to be the man and one to be the woman. Kudos to the actors and director for understanding this point.
The most impressive point/s of the movie, IMHO, was how the subplot brought out the love, compassion, and family values each of the characters had in their relationships with the other characters. Overall I am totally happy with the movie and will most certainly be watching the encore presentation on 16 Dec. 2006. May I suggest that others inform friends and family who may not have seen it to enjoy a cute movie on a serious subject.

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Who's reply are you referring to Tattrus?

This is just a general post to A&E and those reading here on the boards...

I'll know for sure after I watch "Wedding Wars" whether I'm really thankful or not, but so far I've got to say I appreciate the bold move A&E is making. In a tv world where gay people are still portrayed as either being oversexed (think the awful "L Word") or murderous (think of numerous "Law and Order" episodes) it's nice to see a more welcoming approach to this very important social issue.

I'm sure the American Family Association is already foaming at the mouth over this tv movie, but they'll just have to do so. As a gay woman, I can tell you I've tried everything (including suicide) to become "normal" and eliminate the "sin" in me. Nothing (especially the misleading and very harmful "reparative therapy") works and why should it have to? Many gays and lesbians just want the right to visit their much-loved partner in the hospital and to have other legal rights marriage entails...

It would be wonderful if a movie such as "Wedding Wars" could help the far right see that gay people are a lot more normal and deserving of love than they think...but those who hate "people like me" can be very stubborn and narrow-minded...even going so far as to drag God's good name into their vocal, sometimes even violent, protests against gay marriage.

What really saddens me is that there are gay couples who have been together longer than most traditional couples have. It boggles my mind that conservative Christians think they have the right to interfere in the happiness of others. As the comedian Wanda Sykes once said, "if you don't believe in gay marriage, don't marry someone of the same sex." It's that simple!!We are not stepping on your shoes by asking for marriage (you'll still be wed to your spouse), but you are stepping on ours by refusing us a basic right to love.

Sincerely,
Angie in MD